My son and his family come to me on Boxing day. Last year they arrived empty handed as usual, she opened the children's presents leaving all the rubbish on the floor (she wouldn't get up off her fat backside to take it to the bin in the kitchen) sat watching children's tv programmes whilst slyly eating sweets from her pocket so she didn't have to share them.
She never offers to wash a dish or take plates away, doesn't speak to anyone and they sit there for 6 hours, being fed, given drinks and waited on. This has gone on for the last 14 years and I've just about had it.
I hate Christmas now because of this,
am I being unreasonable