This boy keeps putting me down? 10 points?

2018-12-13 1:00 am
I’ve known him for 4 months. Everything used to be ok between us. I thought we liked each other. He would constantly message ring me etc. Chase after me. We had a good friendship. Then I started realising he was having friendships with other girls too. He told me it was just me. He’s a nice guy but I’m looking for more. When I act confident he hates it and always tries to wind me up. Recently I’ve had revealing pics up, he said have some shame. But then said I look so hot in red. He tells me my nose is long. Recently he told me I can’t dance and I’m ruining his sight by dancing, when I asked him where he was. He said what’s it to you? I said I’m just nosey. He said yeah you have the nose for it Lol I felt like crying my eyes out. He tries to be funny but now I’ve just had enough my self esteem feels so low. I started having feelings for him so much. He once told me he didn’t fancy me, then said I should hate myself that I can’t give you more. U r a good looking girl. He keeps contradicting ? Now I’ve blocked him. It’s like he never wants me to be happy. He said oh why you not picking on me today ? Feels weird.

回答 (3)

2018-12-13 4:17 am
Some guys use put downs to make a girl dependent on their praise. It makes some women try harder to please them. Chase a girl and she retreats. Pull away and she fills the void you create. He is manipulating you to keep you where he wants you. It's a power play.
2018-12-13 1:27 am
Yes this guy seems like a jerk to be honest personally I wouldn't want to be involved with someone like that because they are not helping your self esteem in fact they may be making it worse. I would find someone who is caring and doesn't say or do mean things to hurt your self esteem
2018-12-13 1:03 am
It doesn't sound like this guy is good for your self esteem, so why don't you just cut him loose and stop communicating with him altogether.

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