This boy keeps putting me down? 10 points?
I’ve known him for 4 months. Everything used to be ok between us. I thought we liked each other. He would constantly message ring me etc. Chase after me. We had a good friendship. Then I started realising he was having friendships with other girls too. He told me it was just me. He’s a nice guy but I’m looking for more. When I act confident he hates it and always tries to wind me up. Recently I’ve had revealing pics up, he said have some shame. But then said I look so hot in red. He tells me my nose is long. Recently he told me I can’t dance and I’m ruining his sight by dancing, when I asked him where he was. He said what’s it to you? I said I’m just nosey. He said yeah you have the nose for it Lol I felt like crying my eyes out. He tries to be funny but now I’ve just had enough my self esteem feels so low. I started having feelings for him so much. He once told me he didn’t fancy me, then said I should hate myself that I can’t give you more. U r a good looking girl. He keeps contradicting ? Now I’ve blocked him. It’s like he never wants me to be happy. He said oh why you not picking on me today ? Feels weird.
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Some guys use put downs to make a girl dependent on their praise. It makes some women try harder to please them. Chase a girl and she retreats. Pull away and she fills the void you create. He is manipulating you to keep you where he wants you. It's a power play.
Yes this guy seems like a jerk to be honest personally I wouldn't want to be involved with someone like that because they are not helping your self esteem in fact they may be making it worse. I would find someone who is caring and doesn't say or do mean things to hurt your self esteem
It doesn't sound like this guy is good for your self esteem, so why don't you just cut him loose and stop communicating with him altogether.
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