I screwed up and my mom wants me to go to another school. How do I change her mind?
So today me and my friend got in trouble for possession of marijuana at school. He got expelled because it was his and I got lots of detentions. Anyways my mom told me that she's going to switch my school. She already talked to the assistant principal and she emailed the dean and if he says yes then they are going to do it. Km going to see both of them (assistant principal and the dean) tomorrow. I really don't want to go to another school. I never want to smoke again because of this. What can I do to prove to them that I don't need to switch schools?? I'm a senior in high school and want to graduate at my school and not some therapeutic school. She doesn't believe me when I say that I'm not going to get in trouble again for this year. She doesn't believe me because I got in trouble 3 times in 2 months. 1 being for doing fireworks and the other 2 for possession of marijuana. I really don't want to go through any of this again. I hate what I am now. I don't want to go to another school. Can I fix this or am I f*cked?
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Offer to do a weekly drug test if she agrees to keep you there. Tell her you have learnt your lesson.
It would seem like 3 strikes and your out. You apparently didn't learn previously, so there is nothing to suggest that you learned from the most recent which is going to make it very difficult to convince your mom and you have changed.
I find it difficult to believe that you were not expelled after a second mj offense, but I guess you got lucky in the regard.
The best you do to is have a discussion with mom and ask her if there is ANYTHING you can do to stay at your school.
Based on your past actions, it is doubtful you have really learned your lesson. You now say you never want to smoke pot again. Why? It isn't because you think smoking pot is the wrong thing to do when you are a teenager. Your reason for never wanting to smoke again is because you don't want to switch schools. That is how a child thinks, not an adult. Your mother is right in deciding to move you to a different school. I know it seems like the end of the world now, but it really doesn't matter in the long run. when you reach 21 or 22, no one really cares about what happened back in high school. Chances are you won't even be speaking to 95% of the people you went to high school with by the time you are 25.
You screwed up repeatedly and within a short span of time, which shows a pattern of poor judgement. This is alarming since you are a high school senior and will be an adult soon. If you were 14-15, I would say your mom should give you another chance, but you are too old to be making these types of mistakes. Right now, you need to show some maturity and accept the consequences of your actions. Be grateful that your biggest consequence is switching schools. In the adult world, the consequences are much more severe, so please make better choices in the future. You have a lot more to lose as an adult than you do as a child.
You need to learn how to pay the consequences
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