Why does this guy at my work acts hateful towards me after I told him I had a crush on him?

relationships at work are frought with dangers

he may be afraid of getting fired for sexual harrassment if he says anything to you..or thinks you are setting him up for a sexual harrassment charge

cuz hes stupid

He, doesn't hate you, just doesn't want you, to get the wrong, idea, of his kindness, happened to me before, but he was in love with his ex, who he said he was never going back to, playing or not, I respected that, even though, I thought, he was going to give us a fair chance, that, time around. I stop talking to him, because he posted about me on his facebook, in a crazy, half sided story way, to make himself look good, only.I deleted my account, but I do care about his welfare, and guess what! even his chosen girl's well being, but if we ever cross paths, or something, I'll speak to him, in a respectful manner, in regards to his relationship, do unto others as you would want to be done to you, God will bring you someone.

Hope, I helped,


God Bless!

Because he doesn't have a crush on you.
You should NEVER try to get involved with co-workers. Almost always it ends up badly, even if it seems to start out okay.
Now you either figure out how to not be bothered by his animosity, or you need to quit your job and find another one.
LEARN this lesson.

Also learn that a crush is NOTHING like love that lasts. Nor does it predict that a relationship will work out, even if you start one. In fact, experts warn us that the stronger the crush is at the start, the worse the relationship will turn out to be.

Finally .. men who ARE available to date, and who WANT a relationship, will chase after any woman who attracts them. If they are not chasing after YOU, they are either not interested in your or not available for dating.
Don't chase after men. You don't need to if they are attracted to you.