He keeps cheating but begs me back? Is really not happy with me if he keeps cheating?
2018-09-04 5:28 pm
I love him but he has cheated on me more than twice. We'd break up he will cry and beg me to take him back and a few months later do it again. This time he wants to move out of town and wants to marry me. I just hope he is serious and will stop cheating and be with just me. He has 3 kids with two women one he has snuck around on me with we do not share children. I feel if we move away he won't have access to her or any of his exes that he keeps in contact with. Just want some advice before me and him move away. Been on and off for 7 years.
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2018-09-04 6:30 pm
He is a cheater. Not once and not just with you. So you already know that he will NEVER! be faithful to you.
I've read your other posts. And there is more to this story.
Bottom line. You "hope" for something that will never happen.
I've read your other posts. And there is more to this story.
Bottom line. You "hope" for something that will never happen.
2018-09-04 6:32 pm
And it will be on and off for the rest of your life especially if you have children with him. He is a controlling person. He cheats, you forgive and have him back and he cheats again knowing you are going to put up with this disrespectful behaviour. Once you have kids and he's moved you away from your family and under his total control and made you pregnant, he will still go back to the exes and you will be just another one of them to visit occasionally. He's controlling them and is already controlling you. You've wasted 7 years already. He's NOT going to change.
2018-09-05 1:12 am
Not a good prospect. The baby mamas will always have their claws into him over child support and him seeing the children. Cheaters don't change.
2018-09-04 7:23 pm
Advice? DO NOT MARRY HIM unless or until he works out what his motivation is for cheating then wanting back in, over and over again. THAT is an issue that will not necessarily disappear once married, and you do NOT want to be married to a habitual cheater - and his history with his past relationships do not indicate he will change.
He keeps doing this to you because he knows that, in spite of how much this hurts you, you will allow him back into your life and into your bed. Without real consequences he has no reason to change what works - for him.
AND if you are already married to him, seek some counseling IMMEDIATELY. You need help to see that this man is who he is (regardless of location) and if he doesn't want too change (and I doubt he can) you either accept him as he is and that this is your life with him, or get out.
The fact that this relationship has been on again and off again for seven YEARS and there has been no change for the better would indicate this IS as good as it is going to get. Why waste another seven wondering if he can be someone he is not?
He keeps doing this to you because he knows that, in spite of how much this hurts you, you will allow him back into your life and into your bed. Without real consequences he has no reason to change what works - for him.
AND if you are already married to him, seek some counseling IMMEDIATELY. You need help to see that this man is who he is (regardless of location) and if he doesn't want too change (and I doubt he can) you either accept him as he is and that this is your life with him, or get out.
The fact that this relationship has been on again and off again for seven YEARS and there has been no change for the better would indicate this IS as good as it is going to get. Why waste another seven wondering if he can be someone he is not?
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