Can two girls live with a guy?
2018-08-28 6:35 am
me and my (new) boyfriend are putting in a new roommate who is a single girl, she will just go to her room every night alone while we are together that makes me feel like its a pretty bad deal for her, she would need to get a boyfriend real quick in order for it to work out, or I guess if my boyfriend is into her he would obviously want to be with her and im pretty sure she would reciprocate, ugh this is so frustusting, the fact that I myself am not evn sure if I even want to be with him in the first place I also don't even know if he even wants to be with me, we live together and want to make it work but also we have to conser real life steady relationsuips and reproduction and stuff. I just hope the new girl doesn't outshine me and if she does I guess its okay ill go with the flow
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2018-08-28 6:37 am
Sure like the old TV show Threes Company.
2018-08-28 9:30 am
You are obviously very insecure, but at the same time you don't really want to be with him anyway? This is just absurd.
Mature people can live in coed arrangements without complications. A man and a woman can share an apartment together with no Romantic implications.
At the same time you have no trust of your boyfriend. That in itself is a relationship killer.
PS: I moved this question to Singles & Dating because it was posted in Real Estate, but it is more relevant here,
Mature people can live in coed arrangements without complications. A man and a woman can share an apartment together with no Romantic implications.
At the same time you have no trust of your boyfriend. That in itself is a relationship killer.
PS: I moved this question to Singles & Dating because it was posted in Real Estate, but it is more relevant here,
2018-08-28 8:07 am
You don't sound mature enough to live on your own, and/or in a relationship worth protecting in the first place if your BF is ready to fûck anything and everything around him.
2018-08-28 6:43 am
Oh please. If this roommate was a new guy, would you worry that your boyfriend would suddenly turn gay? I doubt it. Not every straight guy is interested in every single straight woman.
You sound really insecure. I think you should work on that. If you do, then it won't bother you who the new roommate is. If you don't, it doesn't matter who the roommate is, you'll always be jealous of anyone near your boyfriend, always worried about losing him.
Maybe spend more time figuring out if you really want to be with your boyfriend and less time worrying that he's going to leave or be seduced by whatever random women are nearby.
You sound really insecure. I think you should work on that. If you do, then it won't bother you who the new roommate is. If you don't, it doesn't matter who the roommate is, you'll always be jealous of anyone near your boyfriend, always worried about losing him.
Maybe spend more time figuring out if you really want to be with your boyfriend and less time worrying that he's going to leave or be seduced by whatever random women are nearby.
2018-08-28 9:42 am
Let me tell you something about women; when they see another girl with a guy (even one they would not ordinarily be interested in) it triggers something inside her that makes her want to compete for him. Especially if that other relationship is in a confined environment e.g. your living arrangement. They just can't resist. Now most guys like female attention and it'll be next to impossible for your bf to ignore this other girl for very long. You may as well be proactive and set up a threesome or sharing type arrangement before he cheats.
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