Iโm 22 and Iโve always had the worst luck with guys. I met my 1st bf online a few weeks ago and he dumped me last Sunday after taking me out on a date. And it was the first time I ever went out with a guy. What was his reason? It was because he doesnโt do lgdr (he lived in CT and I live in NY). When I got home, I messaged another guy. Him and I have plans to go on a date soon but I am freakinโ anxious because what if I donโt get a second date with him. Or what if he loses interest and ghosts me before that? What will I do then?!? The stress has even made me send a text to my ex about how miserable I am and I hope it weighs on his conscious.
My friend asked why I want a relationship so badly. I told her itโs because I want stimulating sex, someone to love me, someone to someone to hold me after a long day, someone to confide in, and someone to go on dates with. She then reminded me that every relationship comes with baggage. I told her I would gladly take that baggage if a relationship is healthy and positive for the most part.
Another friend asked that I should be happy being single because I can focus on myself. I told her I want someone to shower with love and to devote my time to.
My father said that I should let Jesus take the wheel. I told him I turned my back on God because one of the Beautitudes states that those who grieve will one day laugh. Well, I have been in a state of grief since I was 13 because iโm single and I have not laughed since.
What should I do?
I am on the brink of going insane ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฐ What do I do?
2018-07-30 6:23 am
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2018-07-30 10:25 am
First off, don't ever turn your back on God. He is our creator, we should never abandon him.
Secondly, don't take this the wrong way, but you're being a bit too clingy. You're calling your ex your boyfriend after only knowing him for a few weeks. My advice is, don't be obsessed with finding love or getting a boyfriend. The reason why I say this is because in life you usually get what you want when you least expect it. If you wait around obsessing over getting a boyfriend, or are constantly trying to find one, you won't get one. And if you do, it most likely won't end well, because it was forced. Focus on yourself. Focus on your health, your career and/or education, your life. Become your best self without having a boyfriend. Because if you can't find happiness without a boyfriend, then you shouldn't have one. Because you're happiness shouldn't be based off of someone else. It should be based off of your life, and the good things that God will give you.
Secondly, don't take this the wrong way, but you're being a bit too clingy. You're calling your ex your boyfriend after only knowing him for a few weeks. My advice is, don't be obsessed with finding love or getting a boyfriend. The reason why I say this is because in life you usually get what you want when you least expect it. If you wait around obsessing over getting a boyfriend, or are constantly trying to find one, you won't get one. And if you do, it most likely won't end well, because it was forced. Focus on yourself. Focus on your health, your career and/or education, your life. Become your best self without having a boyfriend. Because if you can't find happiness without a boyfriend, then you shouldn't have one. Because you're happiness shouldn't be based off of someone else. It should be based off of your life, and the good things that God will give you.
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2018-07-30 8:26 am
Time to wake up and realize that it's not a good idea to call ANYONE your boyfriend that you haven't been consistently dating for at the very least a couple of months. You want too much too soon.
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