Boyfriend never initiates sex?
2018-07-27 5:52 am
I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I love him lots at the start we had sex a lot which was probably just the honeymoon phase but lately he never initiates it or even making out he always pecks me and gives me hugs throughout the day but like when I go for a passionate kiss he just pecks and breaks it off it’s making me feel horrible if we do have sex which isn’t often I initiate it and I don’t want to even initiate it because I feel like he’s doing it just because he feels like he has to he’s the first person I have had a physical relationship so I feel so insecure I don’t know how to bring it up and feel like if I do bring it up I sound needy and he will just have sex with me because he feels he has to and not because he wants to
回答 (5)
2018-07-29 2:24 am
You need to forget about seeming needy and have a serious chat with him about your concerns because your relationship is destined to fail sooner or later if you remain quietly frustrated. It's better to deal with the issue and solve it one way or the other.
2018-07-27 6:33 am
Being old enough to be in a sexual relationship also means being old enough to learn how to communicate with your partner. Either sit down and have a conversation about this, letting him know how it makes you feel, and finding out if there's a problem, or decide that you're not ready to speak openly about relationship issues and are therefore not ready for a relationship. Lastly, please learn now to punctuate when you write so that you don't come across as a 14 year old.
2018-07-27 6:31 am
. Find out where his head is, be as direct with him as you can be. If he can be just as direct with you in his answer, he may be worth giving him a little space to sort out whatever is going on in his head. If he can't, then look out for yourself and your happiness and try to put space between you two. If that's cool with him, the relationship isn't worth saving.
2018-07-27 6:22 am
Tell him you're thinking of USING guys to have sex with, but only for satisfaction.
You promise him NOT to love the guys you use.
If he wants to know why or doesn't like it... TELL HIM WHY.
You promise him NOT to love the guys you use.
If he wants to know why or doesn't like it... TELL HIM WHY.
2018-07-27 5:58 am
You should talk to him. You aren't going to sound needy if you bring it up, you're concerned and sex is obviously an important part of a relationship. It means something to you and talking to him about it will help him realize that. He might just have a low sex drive, but regardless you should talk to him to see what/if there are issues.
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