Is my friend foolish for giving this guy another chance?

2018-07-05 2:27 am
She has been dating him for almost four months and things were great until the past two weeks.

1) She is complaining that it has been a month since they had sex

2) He avoided her for the past two weeks simply because he had “a couple of off weeks”. Meanwhile, he was still hanging out with his friends. And when she asked what an “an off couple of weeks” meant he would give her a straight answer. I should also mention that they work same mall and live 15 minutes away from each other.


3) He said that he would stop smoking pot for her (she didn’t ask....he just said that he would) but when she saw him yesterday he looked high.

4) He turned off his Snapchat locations off after he felt that she was being too nosey when she was simply trying to use, “where are you and your friend going?” as a conversation starter. Mind you, only she and a few other of his friends could see it. When she confronted him about that, he first lied that he turned it off before the argument and then said: “I just think it’s a creepy thing to have on.”

She says that she has comforted him about this three times and he couldn’t even remember the last two. It was just recently when he said she would change.

She says that she going to wait until the end of July to see if there are any changes in him,

I personally think she should forget about this guy and move on,

What do you guys think?

回答 (4)

2018-07-05 2:36 am
✔ 最佳答案
He sounds like a flake.
2018-07-05 2:54 am
I think it's very normal to date a person for awhile, find out that they aren't who you want to be with, and then end the relationship. Therein lay the freedom, and wisdom, of dating. He's busy being a single guy doing what he wants to do. It's extremely unlikely he's going to change into someone else. If she wants to wait a few more weeks to see if he's going to become someone else.. that's her choice. All in all, this hasn't been a long or a happy relationship. And it will, in time, come to an end.

It's really hard to tell someone else what to do and expect them to do what YOU say. She'll make up her own mind.
2018-07-05 4:12 am
She has to decide for herself if she can trust him, or if just not seeing him for a few weeks, with him hanging out with his stoner friends and then coming back to her, is enough for her. Personally, I think she should bail because I think she can do better, but it's not my call.
2018-07-05 2:48 am
He is a drug addict and she as no future with this guy
but she as to realize all this by herself

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