Should I stretch my ears to keep it from closing?

I have been getting ear piercings on and off again for years. I can t count the amount of times my earhole closed. It s so annoying.

I want to try one last time and I was thinking if I stretch my earhole a bit it will be less likely to close. Is that true?

If it is true, what size I should get? I don t want it to be noticeably stretched or anything like those people that do body modifications. I want it to be as little as possible, so I can still wear regular earrings. What size do you recommend. I was thinking 2mm, but I m not sure if it s too small or big.

Thanks in advance and sorry if it s a stupid question. I don t know much about this.