My boyfriend constantly looks at other women, should I deal with it?

2018-06-09 5:20 am
Hi my boyfriend is 23, we’ve together almost 8 months. He’s a pretty decent guy for the most part but I sometimes have my doubts... he’s very protective over his phone & it’s always on silent. he literally never leaves it anywhere around me, Ive never gone through it so it makes me wonder why he acts that way. I mainly worry about him constantly looking at other women, I feel embarrassed when we are out because he looks at every woman that walks by & continues to look throughout our time together he also is always liking and reposting other women’s pictures on social media.. he’s told me he’s struggled with looking at other women since he could remember but he doesn’t mean any harm, should I give him a pass and work with him or is this a red flag?

回答 (8)

2018-06-10 1:39 pm
Men will always check out other women, doesn't mean anything, it's just like daydreaming to us. You won't ever get a guy to stop looking at other women, just some guys are more subtle than others. So ask him to be more subtle about it, like give glances rather than big long stares.

As for letting you look at his phone, that's an invasion of privacy. Would you let him look in your phone?
2018-06-09 10:42 am
men can't help it, for the most part, if it bothers you, tell him, but he will still look.
2018-06-10 1:48 pm
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2018-06-09 5:22 am
You have every right to feel embarrassed
Any female would at being disrespected so publicly
The whole phone issue, says you dont trust him either
no trust, no respect
what do you have?
2018-06-10 7:34 am
DUMP HIM!!!!! He's NOT a decent guy if he's secretive and looking at other women while you're standing right there!
2018-06-09 6:14 am
I'd tell him looking at other women when you are with him needs to stop immediately. He doesn't "struggle" at all in my opinion, that is just an excuse to keep doing it. You should feel insulted when he does it.
2018-06-09 5:57 am
You have got lots of red flags so just move on. If he asks why then be honest and open on how you feel and give him your expectations !!!
2018-06-09 5:32 am
You already know the answer to this question. Follow your instincts. There must be some reason why he doesn't let you see his phone and why he looks at other women. You need to reevaluate your relationship and decide whether you can live with this behavior or not.
2018-06-09 5:31 am
NO do not deal with it

DUMP HIM ;;because he will never change

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