Firstly i apologize for my bad English as its not my language..
So,back in 2013, i got admitted in a private college for dentistry,i enjoyed and loved the course a lot as i knew i was going to be a doc in the end,,parents invested huge money there...however,due to certain health issue, i couldn't pass the 1st year examinations and was forced to quit after spending 3 years there as it was limitations in number of attempts...
It put me into severe depression,as being a doc is all i wanted to be in life...,so i dropped a year in 2017 to prepare for medical entrance exams,gave all my efforts in it....then results came.,couldn't qualify for few marks...
Now that i'm 25yo,i can no longer apply for the exams...at the same time,i'm still a high school passout without a degree...i see all people of my age now being graduated/married/setteled,where i'm the only one left behind...but the biggest regret is i couldn't become what i always wanted to be and felt best for me...
I think my life is a lie and feel like killing myself everytime as i know i'll never achieve it and this regret will forever haunt me throughout life...Is suicide the only way for me?!!!!
just wanted to share feeling with good people around the world for advices....
Failed college,couldn't achieve dreams...don't feel like living anymore?
2018-06-07 4:40 am
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2018-06-07 4:47 am
✔ 最佳答案
I'm sorry this has happened to you, and I hope something I say will help. Things happen that we cannot control. We can't always have what we want. I understand how you feel, having my own dreams crushed. But you can't allow this to ruin your life. You need to find something else - you are meant for some other purpose - you MUST move forward, if you ever want to be happy. It's like a football game - you make a play, it doesn't work, so you forget about it, and try something else.. that is all that we can do.. that and pray for guidance.
2018-06-07 4:54 am
have u considered a 2 yr community college? or business school for office work?
2018-06-07 4:52 am
Everyone fails at times. The question is not if you fail but what you will do once you fail. If your parents loved you so much to invest in your education, just think what how they will feel if you commit suicide. The first thing I would do if I were in your shoes would be to make Jesus Christ my Savior and Lord. Only Jesus can help you remove the guilt and regret and bring hope back into your life. In addition, I would begin reading the Bible and God's promises there and pray them over my life. Only God knows what he created you to do and only from him will you begin to put a future vision for your life in place.
2018-06-07 7:26 am
Find something else. You could become a Lab tech. They get paid fairly well. Or a pharmacist.
Or if not those, then perhaps you could become a teacher. There's other jobs out there.
Don't give up.
Or if not those, then perhaps you could become a teacher. There's other jobs out there.
Don't give up.
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