All i want is him. were both bisexual and he wants to try sex with guys. Im not ok with this, being bisexual doesnt mean you go out with a girl and still **** guys, you have to choose. Im ok having him and not having sex with girls. Its been 8 months and hes only sprung this on me now. How can i say no without being controlling? I really love him.
You can't say "no" without being controlling. What you can say without being controlling is "I'm only interested in a monogamous relationship. You will have to decide which you want."