Did this girl reject me?

yes, it is.

Yes, it's rejection. When girls make excuses like that, they're saying no.

Shortly after we just met, the guy who is now my husband asked me out over the course of several months. I said no. He gradually gave up on me. Then one day we saw each other again and we decided to give it a try.

Just because she was busy all week doesn’t mean that she definitely has rejected you. I’d try again next week. If she still says no, you have two choices: a) move on; b) ask her if she isn’t ever interested in going out with you. Make her stop making excuses and be honest. You deserve the truth.

Yes it s rejection

The key question is whether or not she's a strong woman.

May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money).

My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this girl unless she’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!

PS Strong men attract strong women like magnets (as well as weak women - so be careful). The best way to get to know a strong woman without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service or a school organization.

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