I feel so sad, I had to learn the hard way that friends with benefits, don't work for me, I had to sit there and listen to a man, I care so?

2018-04-29 8:23 pm
Deeply about, talk about going on dates with other women, I know we're not in a relationship, but it's strange he changed his bed sheets, but yet told me it was his cousin baby that put crumps in it, but instead he had other women over in the same bed I was in. Why lie if we weren't in a relationship then. I just told him I didn't want to do it anymore! He calls me the next day, and says I was so much more than sex. And most times he didn't want to have sex with me, just hang out! But when he sees how curvy and sexy I'm, he can't help it. Help me! I don't do well with FWB

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2018-04-29 8:31 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Then don’t do it again. FWB relationships rarely turn into traditional relationships. A lot of times people don’t have a set of rules to go by and it’s like anything goes. One person may develop feelings. And they never usually have a happy ending. Find a guy who truly cares about you and is proud to call you his girlfriend.
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2018-04-29 8:25 pm
Help how?
You tried, you found out it wasnt for you
So move on, find someone to have a relationship with, someone who wants and respects the same values as you do
Life lesson learned
next?
2018-04-30 4:25 am
Then don't take on an FWB again. Most women don't do well with an FWB relationship because sex with a man she finds attractive and appealing causes her brain to release the bonding hormone, oxytocin. It's a false attachment all about hormones.

but if the FWB is long-term, people get to know each other personally, start depending on each other, too, and more. So yeah, i've been there! And i'm not a young girl.

My heart isn't all broken, i can live without him. But i was very attached to the guy. I ended it for reasons other than the attachment, though. Five months later? I'm still alive to tell about it and i've recovered. He's a great person, and i wish him well.
2018-04-29 9:23 pm
then you did what you needed to do, be honest with him, if he whines, that's on him, not you .........

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