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Too much risk compared to small of a reward, or the real possibility of no reward at all. But more importantly you are missing the great advantage of not knowing what its like to be with others and to have someone to love. If you can't make friends in a relationship, you aren't going to make any alone and return to the obscurity you existed before you found your girlfriend.
Some of those players you envy aren't capable of having a loving relationship with women due to their own insecurities, and the rest actually envy you being with a woman that you truly love. In other words, by comparison you are the winner, not the loser.