Is speaking something into existence an actual thing?

2018-03-06 3:05 am
Okay something really creepy happened to me today. I was at Uni with my friends. We were walking to the cafe area and i saw this girl who looked like my ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with). It wasn't her even though she reminded me of her.

THEN, after Uni when i was waiting for the bus, on the opposite side, I saw yet ANOTHER girl who looked like his ex and i had to put on my glasses to see if it was actually her or not. It wasn't her, yet again. I was even with my friends at the time and i asked them if they thought it was her and they said it "definitely wasn't".

So fast forwarding a couple of hours later, i was walking home from the library and just outside my block of flats, guess who is standing there with her friends? HIS EX. I felt sick as soon as i saw her, and i even almost broke down when i got to my room.

So, what do you make of this whole situation?

Please, i really need answers, because it could be a case where i thought/spoke it into existence, which is a scary thought, because i also always have thoughts of them getting back together, which i always try to shrug off, but it would be my worst nightmare, as I have hope that me and him will rekindle.

回答 (2)

2018-03-06 3:19 am
My guess is that the only thing you caused by your obsessive thoughts about her was the first two false sightings. Notice that your friends found it easier than you did to be sure the person across the street was not your rival. This indicates that your feelings about her clouded your perceptions.

I do believe there is such a thing as a self fullfilling prophesy, but I do not believe this involves any mysterious force. I think, for example, that a jealous and possessive girlfriend can drive away her crush by wearing him out with her paranoya and false suspicions.
2018-03-06 3:15 am
Just a coincidence. Only God speaks things into existence. But sometimes we are very tuned into boyfriends, so we're literally looking for anything connected with him. When ye seek, ye shall find.


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