Do I have a porn addiction? Does it even matter?

2018-03-04 12:25 am
I've been watching porn regurarly for a couple of years now, and by "regurarly" I mean at least once a week.

I find myself enjoying porn that isn't extreme like other categories. I always watch lesbian porn and I can't stand it when a man is in the picture, not even those POV videos, it just turns me off.

Not to say that there isn't lesbian porn that is extreme, but I'm saying that I watch the kind that has more of a story to it, not just plain sex or even just some weird dress-up scenario out of nowhere.

In any case, I don't see this as a problem. I've read that by watching porn, you become kind of "immune" to being attracted to real people, and maybe that is somewhat true, I can still tell if a girl is attractive to me or not but I wouldn't neccesarily say that I get attracted to them just like that.

I don't ever see myself having a girlfriend anyways so I don't see a point in stopping since this is an activity I enjoy a lot. Don't get me wrong, though, I don't spend several hours every time I watch porn, maybe like 30mins max to find a good video and get invested in the story and then finally reaching an orgasm.

Please share your opinions, I am curious to know what you think, because maybe I just don't know anything since I am only 17 (turning 18 soon).

回答 (5)

2018-03-04 12:14 pm
Does not sound like you have an addiction to porn based on the little you watch.
2018-03-04 2:53 am
If you're not spending almost all your free time watching porn, neglecting your personal responsibilities, then you're not addicted to porn. It's adult entertainment.

It's become very common for men to become addicted to porn, and not desire being with a real woman anymore. And these people do isolate themselves.
2018-03-04 1:21 am
an addiction is not once a week, porn is fantasy---in case you don't know people get paid to do it take pills to make them look good and are generally so full of filling and drugs get a life and find reality
2018-03-04 1:07 am
I don't think once a week constitutes an "addiction", unless it is getting in the way of your normal daily routines, social interactions and responsibilities.
However, you'd be better off exploring your own imagination instead of using porn AND getting out in the world to meet new and interesting people, some of whom may even become romantic partners.
So, in your case I would suggest relying on the porn a little less and dropping that "I don't ever see myself having a girlfriend" attitude and get out in the world and meet new people.
2018-03-04 12:49 am
Yes. Life's purpose is to reproduce. You cannot reproduce with a computer.

Furthermore, you have essentially trained your brain to no longer get sexually aroused by real situations and real people.

So, even if you WERE to find a girl, you won't be able to to have sex as you won't be able to get aroused.

There's no quick fix for already-occurring problem. You need to see a sex therapist to get back to normal.


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