Broken hearted, I'm seeing this guy and I'm falling in love with him, but he says he not ready for a relationship?

2018-02-17 1:16 am
Ok, so I had to tell him I didn't want this anymore and that I deserve far more than what I'm getting. I just don't think it's fair for me to give up sex with no commitment, and said he should find someone who has the same interests. I'm just so sad because I really liked him. But after I told him he came to my job, wanting to talk, saying he was falling in love with me. But still no commitment, what I do guys? I just can't give sex for free.

回答 (5)

2018-02-17 1:37 am
✔ 最佳答案
I am not a sex expert, but someone who has sex with you is because he likes you I presume? Otherwise he'd have it with someone else?

Idk, I think asking him about why no commitment is a bad idea as he has unresolved emotional issues, but he must fix/heal them before coming to you again.
2018-02-17 1:58 am
You already have been giving sex for free up to this point anyway.
2018-02-17 1:33 am
Sorry. but nobody compelled you to provide sex.
You offered it before there was any commitment,
why expect him to commit? He got the sex you
offered....end of story. Learn from it!
2018-02-17 1:21 am
If he says he's not ready for a relationship, just be happy being friends with him, a relationship is 2 people and if one isn't ready it will not work. Also if you started with a friends with benefits situation the worst thing you can do is make a relationship out of that, he's clearly using you for sex and you deserve way better, and as for the 'sex for free' Idk girl maybe you should start charging :/
2018-02-17 5:58 am
He wants you as a F buddy, nothing more.

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