i really hate it when people i'm close with tell me what i am and what i'm not because they find the things i say too negative as if i'm being down on myself when i'm really just being honest and i know there are both good and bad qualities about myself but i don't need you to name them to give me validation because i actually don't care at all and i know exactly who i am and what i'm like and how i can be so when people try to be nice to me when i'm talking about myself i want to punch them in the face and i get very annoyed because i don't need kindness or validation or reassurance that i am or i'm not a certain way because i know myself more
does anyone else feel this way lol
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i'm not down on myself i don't hate or punish myself for being a certain way that isn't socially acceptable because i'm just a person and i own my thoughts and feelings so when people tell me that i'm amazing and special and not a certain way that may be seen as negative i get extremely annoyed because i'd much rather just be the way i am without people trying to make me feel better about something i don't feel bad about