Am I wrong to be annoyed by this?
So me and my friends have all turned 16 so we’ve started to drive. I don’t drive a whole lot mainly because I don’t have to. I don’t go out much and if I do it’s with one of my parents. When I go to school I don’t really have to drive because my mom is already down there. She’s one of my teachers. My friends though constantly ask me if I drive or why I don’t drive. They’ve said that I must be a bad driver for not driving that much. I just don’t see why it matters or how it affects them. They’re almost mad that I don’t drive a lot which I don’t understand. I get very annoyed at them but don’t really know if it’s justified. Do I have the right to be annoyed at the question when I really don’t drive?
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Hahahah milennials, right
Emotions have nothing to do with rights. The reality is you are annoyed. Its not about right or wrong, its only about whether its worth the time.
Tell them you can't afford a car and you're not a spoilt brat so your parents won't buy you one. Then proceed to tease them for being a spoilt brat
You feel however you want to feel!
The next time they ask you about it, say "what's up with your fixation on my driving?" Throw the question right back at them. Maybe they will eventually the flick.
Tell them you are just driving when you feel like it and allowing your Mom to drive you wherever you need to go somewhere. And/or, you can say this if you want to sound more enthusiastic about driving. We only have one car and my parents need it. I get it when they’re not using it. Even if you have more than one car, neither one is yours. So it’s not your decision to use one or the other since you need to get approval to drive one one of the cars. Who can dispute that? Good luck
Think back to middle school when so many, discovered the power of bad words. It's one of the many phases kids go through, suddenly they feel empowered to use all these shocking words, makes them feel more independent, more in control over their own lives. Driving is another stepping stone and the mentality for kids with these things is. If you are not feeling lie me, not doing as I am, then there is something wrong with you. One of the reasons that high school can be so difficult and cruel for so many. We preach to our kids to be themselves, not to follow the crowd, do and follow your own path, what makes you happy. But the society at that time is if you are not like us, think like use, do what we do, then there is something wrong with you. Kids are jerks without realizing they are.
They want you to be a driver too. Nevermind.
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