✔ 最佳答案
Dump him. He's lashing out because you caught him doing something that no one who is good for you would ever do. You have every right to be angry. Worse, after getting caught, he's emotionally manipulating you to make you feel like your own feelings don't matter. You pointed out that he is an older man and such manipulation is a very common problem in such relationships. That he feels he has the right to manipulate you means he does not respect you and everyone deserves to be with someone who respects them and should not settle for less. It will be hard to do but you know it's what you have to do. Good luck.