Can we combine Christmas cards plus thank you notes?

2017-11-29 3:11 am
For over 60 years my parents custom made their own Christmas cards. They just got this years' cards from the printer when my father passed away suddenly. Can we address the Christmas cards then write a thanks in them for the funeral and include that holy card they give you from the church? It's going to be really hard writing and addressing the last Christmas cards designed by dad.

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2017-12-03 3:30 am
✔ 最佳答案
Absolutely. Another idea would be to handwrite a thank you note then stick it and the holy card from the church inside. I know it will be hard to do it with his signature there, but just know that his spirit is with you and inside every card you send out. It's an awesome idea that they've custom made cards for so long! Sorry for your loss - have a wonderful holiday season just the same :)
2017-11-29 3:17 am
Hard to say without seeing how jolly the card is, but in principle it sounds like an excellent idea.
2017-12-01 6:21 pm
Could you not, just print out some little thank you poems and pop it in the back of the envelope, instead of writing it in the cards themselves. That way it’s more effort but the same meaning behind it. TBH. You have just lost your dad,,, at Christmas!! Anyone who gets offended of a card as such a sad time for you...do they really matter? I’m just saying people will most likely not take offence to it which ever way you do it especially because of your circumstances. I’m sorry for your loss by the way. At least your dad left one last part of him to be remembered and treasured before he parted. I’m sure anyone he matters to will treasure the card and be glad he made them.
2017-11-30 1:20 am
it sounds like an excellent idea.
2017-11-29 3:48 am
Yes
2017-12-03 4:13 am
Nope it's against the law. 20 years jail time.

Of course you can! Who says you can't?
2017-12-02 10:40 am
I wouldn’t do it, but I would accept it as a compliment.
2017-12-02 1:40 am
Yes, that’s a good idea, very sorry for your loss
2017-12-02 1:26 am
yes! just do it! don't think about it to much!
2017-12-01 10:58 pm
yes,
2017-11-30 1:43 am
yes
2017-11-29 8:02 pm
Yeah
2017-11-29 1:45 pm
Yes
2017-11-29 12:45 pm
no
2017-11-29 3:22 am
No, you shouldn't do that. It's vulgar. You don't shortcut on thank-yous. They didn't send you condolences in a birthday card. They didn't send you flowers in the form of a Thanksgiving wreath. They went out of their way to do whatever you're thanking them for specifically and solely for the purpose of mourning your dad's passing, not piggy-backed onto something else, some other celebration.

What's more, don't put something like that in a card that is supposed to celebrate Christmas, a card that many people would be hanging on their wall or on their front door as festive decorations for anyone and everyone to peruse if not for all the irrelevant and highly personal stuff about your dad's death you wrote in there. Also, if you don't think you can use those cards without making them about his death rather than about Christmas, then you shouldn't use them as Christmas cards.
2017-12-03 5:00 am
Yes
2017-12-03 3:38 am
yes, to acknowledge it
2017-12-02 6:35 pm
Why not?
2017-12-02 5:11 pm
It sounds reasonable to combine and is in a sense a 'last' link.
2017-12-02 5:05 pm
Yes we can
2017-12-02 10:33 am
it's a very nice idea & it makes them more special that they are the last ones that he was able to take part in designing.
2017-12-02 9:06 am
Yes
2017-12-02 1:30 am
Yes
2017-11-29 6:47 am
That's awfully rude.

What would YOU think if someone sent you a Christmas card, and added:
"PS: Sorry about your Dad."


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