Hi,
I met a girl off tinder and went on a date with her last Saturday. This week she had been very quiet. I asked her today why she has been quiet, she said on Friday she saw a picture of me and my brother and found out she knew him as they went on 1 date in August.
I said it isn't a big deal as online dating is a small world and me and my brother usually match with the same people. After a talk on the phone she said she doesn't feel that weird about it anymore. My main concerns is just exactly what happened? She says they went on 1 date and never got round to a second. He says on the date he went to her room and things happened.
I missed my train on my date with her and had to get an expensive taxi home, she said I couldn't stay at hers as it would look bad to her housemates on the first date (I had no intention of sleeping with her, just didn't want to pay £70 for a taxi) but if she did the opposite with my brother, then she seems shady?
I do like her and we did get a long, but I don't know if she is just someone who loves black guys and goes on loads and loads of dates? It would make me feel uncomfortable. You don't really want a potential partner to be known on the scene.
What should I do?
Please, I need advice. If a girl went on one date with your brother before you knew each other, what would you do?
2017-11-19 10:06 pm
回答 (3)
2017-11-19 10:10 pm
This situation doesn't make you comfortable, so get out of it.
In the future, maybe run your potential dates past your brother to see if he has already met them.
It's perfectly fine if you want to date someone one of you has already been out with and found it wasn't their thing- but finding a girl who sleeps with someone one the first date should make you think twice about whether she is someone you really want to be with at all. Do you want to think that at any time, she could be having sex with some other guy at the drop of a hat? What if you got her pregnant?
Seriously, find someone else who waits until you at least have a real relationship.
In the future, maybe run your potential dates past your brother to see if he has already met them.
It's perfectly fine if you want to date someone one of you has already been out with and found it wasn't their thing- but finding a girl who sleeps with someone one the first date should make you think twice about whether she is someone you really want to be with at all. Do you want to think that at any time, she could be having sex with some other guy at the drop of a hat? What if you got her pregnant?
Seriously, find someone else who waits until you at least have a real relationship.
2017-11-20 12:01 am
No big deal at all. Just carry on as you were.
2017-11-19 10:12 pm
Does your brother hook up with a lot of people? I would try to ask him for some more details about her and the apartment building. It is possible that he is getting her mixed up with someone else. But if you believe your brother's story, then I think you should just move on. Regardless of the truth you aren't going to be able to trust her. This is too much baggage to unpack for someone you just met.
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