How can I save my relationship ?
2017-11-08 4:26 am
I have been in a relationship with this girl for 5 months now. She is a good woman indeed she is. Good job, personality, beautiful etc. the only problem is she doesn’t want sex. I’m not talking about intercourse she basically tries to cut sex completely out of our relationship. If I kiss her passionately it’s a problem, if I touch her it’s a problem, if I flirt with her it’s a problem. Our relationship is like a friendship because she tries to cut all forms of intimacy out. And she always questions me about being faithful. I like her a lot but Everyman needs some form of sexual satisfaction once in a while. I respect if she is not ready for now but come on it’s a problem kissing her wtf. How can I save my relationship please help
回答 (4)
2017-11-08 5:46 am
Try talking. Sex is not compulsory. She has the right to say no. If it upsets you so much thst you need to tell strangers, maybe it is time to move on so she can find someone who will accept her as she is
2017-11-08 4:56 am
You probably can't. What is missing from your narrative is WHY she refuses any sexual or intimate connection. Have you even tried to discuss this with her? Is this based on a strong religious faith? Is she using you? Does she have a significant mental illness? Does she have some unhealed trauma in her past? Does she WANT to have sex or intimacy at some time in the future?
If you care enough to invest in this so-called relationship, you should get the two of you into counseling. If she is unwilling to go, that is your clue that she is never going to engage in sex.
If you care enough to invest in this so-called relationship, you should get the two of you into counseling. If she is unwilling to go, that is your clue that she is never going to engage in sex.
2017-11-08 4:35 am
There is nothing to save. She finds u physically appalling and is using u either for free meals or just company
2017-11-08 4:27 am
If you're with an adult woman for five months and there is no sexual/physical intimacy, i find that extremely odd... i'd probably move on, but that's me.
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