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Hi there,
We’re so glad that you’re reaching out to talk about the feelings you’re having. It sounds like you’re going through a lot of emotional pain. Greif is one of the most difficult emotional journey's anyone can go through, and the loss of your mother is understandably causing you many overwhelming feelings. Thank you for having the courage to talk about these things.
Your life has so much value! If you didn’t exist, the world would be robbed of the unique gifts and qualities you have. Grief, and the depression that can arise from it, can cause us to think so badly of ourselves, that those gifts are buried under the weight of our sadness. Often, when we are going through so much pain, we lose sight of the many reasons to keep living, and want only to find a way out. The one thing your daughter needs is your love. You know the impact of a mother on her daughter, and the impact of a mother's loss. There are many other reasons to keep living, but if at this time, you struggle to see that, focus on your daughter. If you didn’t exist, you wouldn’t feel this pain, but you also would miss the many opportunities for joy and love that are possible in your future. There are other ways to stop the pain.
One of most important supports to have is someone who can really listen to you and understand the feelings you have to express. If you have people in your life that you care for and who care for you, reaching out to them and taking the same courageous step you took when you emailed us might help you find the support you need. If you don’t have that in your life, we strongly encourage you to reach out to us further to speak directly to a counselor. Often times, speaking these thoughts out loud and hearing another’s response can open up possibilities for hope.