I had love marriage 1 & half year back,issues started between my mother & wife from last 7-8months bcoz of which my relation with my wife also getting effected she use to feel that i support my mother & sister and my mom felt i support her.
In between i made them understand they were wrong but they didnt understood & thing strated getting worsned ..every festival there were fights..finally i decided to leave my parental home to avoid fights as it was effecting my work place.but when i m leaving my parents ..if i talk them wife think that i m wrong i shud say i m dead for parents and shud not talk to them.she say not to keep any relation with parents also she say no physical relation tilll we get seperated
She is trying to dominate on me..getting aggressive.kindly suggest what shall i do..
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Marriage issue,angry partner & misunderstanings asking to cut off all relations with parents?
2017-09-05 2:24 am
回答 (2)
2017-09-06 3:53 am
Absolutely NO, you cant cut your family just because your spouse is angry, that's pretty much manipulation, sorry but are with a very selfish and immature spouse.
2017-09-05 4:03 am
Absolutely nothing. Your wife is just still angry at your family for things in the past and hasn't yet gotten over it, but will in time. All you really need to do is compartmentalize your family separate from your wife. Any interactions you have with your family are not shared with your wife, and any interactions with your wife are not shared with your family. They both will ask you about the other, but you just need to stand firm and say nothing.
2017-09-05 2:50 am
OH Wait a minute here !!
She is not the agressive ONE here ;; you ARE
YOUR words ;; I Made them understand ;; so in short you force your idea and your wants on your wife
I am sure there much more to your story than you are telling us Here
She is not the agressive ONE here ;; you ARE
YOUR words ;; I Made them understand ;; so in short you force your idea and your wants on your wife
I am sure there much more to your story than you are telling us Here
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