How the hell do i deal with these feelings?
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it was safe sex
How to deal with feeling like a slut for losing my virginity to a guy after knowing him 4 days?
2017-08-23 1:20 am
I know that calling a woman a slut and slut shaming is wrong etc, but I still feel awful. I'm not a promiscuous person, I wouldn't hop into bed with anyone usually. At the time I thought that he and I had a special bond. We f***ed in a tent at a festival of all places, not classy at all, and though it felt amazing at the time, a few weeks later now I loathe myself for it. I'm lying to all of the people around me about it because I'm so scared that they'll think that I'm a silly little whore, and I don't usually lie about anything, so the guilt of lying and fear of being found out is killing me. On top of all of the guilt is the fact that I can't even be in a relationship with him because he lives in Essex (very far away from me) and that just makes it almost a one night stand, even though I have strong feelings for him. I don't want HIM thinking that I'm some cheap easy girl who has just discarded him or just wanted sex. I genuinely like him, so much that now not being with him kinda hurts.
How the hell do i deal with these feelings?
How the hell do i deal with these feelings?
回答 (4)
2017-08-23 1:40 am
✔ 最佳答案
Nobody's going to care if you slept with someone you knew for less than a week.. unless if they're hardcore Christians or something. So many women have one-night stands, so many men have one-night stands, people have sex with total strangers. You should feel happy you lost it to someone you had an emotional connection with, not everyone can say that. You have nothing to be ashamed of, sex is just sex.
2017-08-23 1:22 am
pregnancy and std testing are next in line for you, should be more of a concern then feeling like a slut. All women are sluts to the right guy, guess he was right for you. Don't make a big deal out of it
2017-08-23 3:28 am
You were, as you realise, foolish. But, one stupid act does not make you a slut. . Put i
He was as willing as you
Put it behind you, but learn from it
He was as willing as you
Put it behind you, but learn from it
2017-08-23 1:34 am
You have to ACCEPT that you ARE NOT perfect. Every girl that lost her virginity to the wrong guy or at the wrong time. Deals with REGRET.
Right now it is the BIGGEST thought on your mind.
I your house catches fire and you are HOMELESS overnight with NOTHING.
Your virginity issue WILL DISAPPEAR because now you have a REAL PROBLEM or a DIFFERENT PROBLEM.
Do did NOTHING WRONG, just because you are 2nd guessing yourself.
Your Friends and Family have OTHER PROBLEMS TOO. If they are focused on you and passing judgement, they will quit IF THEIR HOUSE CATCHES FIRE.
Enjoy the Future.
There will be other mistakes to learn from.
I PROMISE.
Right now it is the BIGGEST thought on your mind.
I your house catches fire and you are HOMELESS overnight with NOTHING.
Your virginity issue WILL DISAPPEAR because now you have a REAL PROBLEM or a DIFFERENT PROBLEM.
Do did NOTHING WRONG, just because you are 2nd guessing yourself.
Your Friends and Family have OTHER PROBLEMS TOO. If they are focused on you and passing judgement, they will quit IF THEIR HOUSE CATCHES FIRE.
Enjoy the Future.
There will be other mistakes to learn from.
I PROMISE.
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