If your 16 daughter was pregnant, what would you do? Let her keep it or terminate? Give some reasons?
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It's not your decision, it's hers and only hers.
Termination isn't an option to me. If my 16 year old daughter was old enough to spread her legs, then she'd definitely have to face the consequences.
At sixteen, she doesn't get to decide anything, no matter what the laws are. I would have already explained to her about four years earlier that if she wants to have sex, she has to let me know and be on birth control. If she gets pregnant, she will be getting an abortion and she and the father will each be responsible for half of the cost.
I would encourage adoption. Terminating a pregnancy could haunt her for the rest of her life. Adoption allows her to decide what type of relationship (if any at all) she would like with her child...without the burden of finances and total responsibility. Doesn't she want to go to college? Doesn't she still want to have time to see friends and grow up? Is it fair to a baby to be terminated? No. Is it fair to a baby to be brought up by a teenager who may not be able to fully provide for baby's needs? No. Good luck.
She should definitely keep the baby. It's unfair to kill something that almost had a chance at life. She did the dirty at a young age so she needs to be able to suffer the consequences. Make sure that you take her in so that she can continue into her studies. However, if your daughter has any conditions in which giving birth to a child can risk her health or her life in any way, you should ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to abort it then let her do just that. At the age of 16 you are still vulnerable to the world and to risk her health would be bad.
I would let her keep it, but if she mistreats it then I'll take care of it.
The best thing to do is give her options. Support in her decision no matter what it is, and just be there for her like a good mother would, even if it disappoints you, she's still your daughter. It probably scares her as much as you now and the last thing you want to do is stress her out because if she decides to keep it, it could result in more complications. But ultimately it's not your decision ever, its hers.
I would let her make her own decision. If you are old enough to be having sex then you are old enough to be dealing with the consequences. You can't spoon feed serious life decisions for your daughter. It is tough but 16 is the age where they have to cut their mum's apron strings and fend for themselves in the big bad world.
Having a baby is a responsibility but it's also one of the most rewarding things life can give you. Sometimes timing isn't always when you want it to be but it happens when it's supposed to. Trust in the lord and pray for understanding and reassurance because having a baby is a blessing. Think about how much you love your daughter and if you could imagine life without her. Think about how much your parents love you and grandparents. The good thing about life is that education and anything else can come at any time in life but a person who is made in their mommys belly is the only time they will be made. You wouldn't have your daughter if you terminated her and you wouldn't love and cherish the person she is yoday otherwise. Just know as long as that baby has a loving mother and a good home everything will be ok and you won't be able to imagine life without that baby either.
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