is it illegal for me to contact my moms lawyer?

If you contact your mom's lawyer, they have a duty to report that contact to your mom.

It's totally legal for you to talk to anyone you want. But the lawyer will of course tell your mother everything you say.

No. Your mom's lawyer works for her not for you. Rest assured if you contact this lawyer your mom will find out about it from the lawyer.

Ask the lawyer. He'll talk to you or he won't. There's no law against asking.

not really, contact him and f**** her

Don't contact your mom's lawyer they will probably try to use things you say against your Dad.

No, your mother's lawyer would not talk to you at all.

I was going to say no, but when I thought about it, you can, it's just not usually done that way. Her lawyer probably doesn't want to talk to you. If he did want to talk to you, he would have talked to you.

The way it normally works is that there are people who will come talk to you. Social works who are trained to talk to children about abuse. Then they write reports that will be read by the lawyers and the judge.

So it's the social worker you want to talk to, because the judge and everyone else is going by his report. It takes some time, but eventually a social worker will come and talk to you.