I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 11 months already. The last time I spoken to her was 5 months ago. There was no arguments beforehand. Just that I’ve been really busy. When I finally got back to her, she told me she have a new boyfriend and thought I didn’t want to be with her anymore. I told her that I still wanted to be her boyfriend and told her if I am not interested in being her boyfriend, I would tell her. I am always interested in being hers forever unless she told me that she isnt interested anymore.
1. How come she thought that I didn’t want to be with her anymore?
2. How come she didn’t trust me that I wanted to be her boyfriend?
3. What would you assume about your significant other if your signficant other was busy for a period of time?
4. Why is it hard to find people that is really loyal? If my girlfriend didn’t get back to me for years and years, I would still consider her as my girlfriend as long as she didn’t state that she isnt interested in me anymore. If she passed away and I didn’t know about it, I would still consider myself as her boyfriend and would stay loyal to her because I wouldn’t know about her passing away.
5. Is my loyality good or bad?
I need serious help with my girlfriend?
2017-07-13 4:00 am
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2017-07-13 5:16 am
There is something known as "Ghosting". It's where someone just cuts off all communication with someone and is never heard from again. It is a fairly common way of breaking up with someone without actually telling them. So, unless you find someone that is like you, and you discuss beforehand that you might not be available for a length of time, the majority of people will assume that you're no longer interested in them if you don't send an occasional message. Even a simple "Sorry I've been so busy lately" would help.
2017-07-13 4:46 am
What you are talking about isn't loyalty. Astonishing selfishness is not the same thing as loyalty! And I bet you are WRONG about how you would react if your SO was simply too busy to bothering contacting you for months or "years and years" at a time. That's total bs. You weren't on a ship lost at sea and her in her grieving dress dreaming over the 8 good years you had before you were lost to her.
You've been replaced. She's not your girlfriend anymore because you ignored her and you are most definitely not her boyfriend anymore because you were a lousy boyfriend. It's over. This has nothing to do with "loyalty" at all. Total bs.
You've been replaced. She's not your girlfriend anymore because you ignored her and you are most definitely not her boyfriend anymore because you were a lousy boyfriend. It's over. This has nothing to do with "loyalty" at all. Total bs.
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