Why do only shitty men like me?

There's nothing wrong with you, but there IS a lot wrong with society today. Men have some idea it's ok to be all creepy and sex talk women or send them inappropriate pictures over text etc. It's not ok!

I know there are decent and respectful men out there who'd make a good partner. Now you have to understand that after a guy gets to know you and you're in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with sex talk --- because when you've been together for a while and have a sexual relationship, this can make it fun.

But it's no fun when guys we don't know decide it's ok to be all creepy.

I suspect you don't have ideals but rather fantasies. You need to date those dudes that have "nothing going". If you, yourself are interesting, you might find that they are pretty impressive people. We don't all brag and advertise, our talents and accomplishments. Creepy "old" men?? How old is "old"?? 27?? Older men are more experienced, usually have better jobs, and are far more interesting. As well as knowing what women want, and need.

Try dating real people, that actually exist. Forget your imaginary "ideal" man. He does NOT exist.