I ve grown up a little bit, currently 16 right now (almost 17) and my parents won t let me go anywhere with my friends at all. I ve never got the chance to hang out with anyone..
Every time I want to ask I get discouraged because they d always say no and yell at me. There was NEVER a time before that where I hung out with anyone else. Its horrible living like I m on a chain all the time.
I never sneak out, hold a 3.5 GPA at all times and no social life AT ALL. I m lucky to even text anyone of my friends once a month.
They always tell me that I need more friends but they ll never let me do ANYTHING. They even make fun of me for not having enough. Its absolutely horrible!
My mom will think that I ll be out having sex because I have a boyfriend when its seriously her problem. She tried to force me into breaking up with him as soon as she found out and told my dad but he s the only thing they re absolutely NOT taking from me.
They think that I only need them when its not true at all.
Please tell me how I can lighten them up because nothing is working. They won t even let me walk home because they don t want me talking to what little about of friends I have.
How can I convince my parents to let me go out for once in my life?
2017-06-30 2:18 am
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2017-07-04 1:24 pm
wonder what cps would say if you told them about all this
2017-06-30 3:11 am
I agree your parents are being way too strict. I have known that type of parents and they learned a hard lesson because when their children left home for college they didn't know how to handle their freedom wisely. They were easily coerced into drinking, drugs and sexual activity because they wanted to try it all to celebrate their freedom. Perhaps you can find online help by searching 'teen's parents too strict'. Good luck.
2017-06-30 2:49 am
My advice is to take charge of the situation. Your parents are doing the wrong thing and you obviously have no credibility in their eyes and they are not going to listen to you no matter what you say to them. Let me repeat: They will not listen to the words that come out of your mouth no matter what you say. their mind is already made up. You're going to have problems later in life. My advice is to not ride the bus home or just don't show up when the parents come to pick you up. Go home with one of your friends and stay over night. Do this maybe once a week. Your parents cannot control you to that level. Leave a note for your parents explaining the situation and that you will be okay. Don't answer their calls, just text them and let them know you're okay, but don't tell them where you are at. You're almost an adult. You need to grow up.
2017-06-30 2:25 am
Explain to them that it's unhealthy for people to be isolated from everyone else. Look up some articles online - there will be ones that explain how isolation can cause depression and in rare cases, suicide. Just because you hang out with your boyfriend doesn't mean sex. Point out that lots of kids have friends and relationship partners of the opposite gender.
They might also be convinced if they're informed that they are not preparing you for the "real world". If your parents are too overprotective, you might have some problems later on in life with making your own decisions. Offer to allow them to drive you to a hangout place and they can call every 30 minutes or so. Also, don't talk to them about this topic ALL the time. You'll appear obsessed and they might get annoyed with the same discussion every day. Bring it up once a week or once per few days or so. Good luck! :DDD
They might also be convinced if they're informed that they are not preparing you for the "real world". If your parents are too overprotective, you might have some problems later on in life with making your own decisions. Offer to allow them to drive you to a hangout place and they can call every 30 minutes or so. Also, don't talk to them about this topic ALL the time. You'll appear obsessed and they might get annoyed with the same discussion every day. Bring it up once a week or once per few days or so. Good luck! :DDD
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