My father wont speak with me until i quit smoking weed, what should i do ?

You should quit smoking weed, otherwise you are saying to your dad that weed is more important to you than he is

Why is that you can't deal with life on your own with no artificial mood alteration?

Pretend like you don't smoke. I don't understand why you have to brag to him that you smoke weed.

My husband and I both 420 but we wouldn't dare let his Christian mother know that.

Keep smoking. Just don't let him find out

Smoking anything is stupid. He helped produce you, and now you're ruining his production by inhaling smoke. Smoke = bad. Why can't you just use edibles? He probably wouldn't react the same to that. He wouldn't even have to know. Pot smokers stink and they ruin others' enjoyment at concerts, parks, etc. Why not get even more stupid and smoke cigarettes while you're at it? You don't have to smoke to use pot.

In all seriousness, I don't blame him for not wanting to talk to a smoker. You're showing disrespect to all the time, money, and effort that has gone into raising you by injecting smoke into your lungs. It sounds like you don't really care about your father, and that's fine, but you might regret it one day if this is the "only" problem and you let it get in between you. Those of us whose dads were assholes are really jealous of you.

which is more important - having a relationship w/your Dad, or being a dolt pothead ???

Find help for your addiction.

Well quit smoking weed and dont do the other things you mentioned when you quit. Otherwise your dad is an idiot

Quit smoking weed.

stop smoking weed

Good for Dad clean up your act and get off the drugs get help.

u wanna talk to your dad? stop smoking weed. U got all the time in the world to smoke, your time with your father is limited cause he wont be here forever. if u notice quitting weed makes u drink and party, then dont drink and party. u can quit weed (it isnt addicting) and not drink and party thats a bad excuse. if u got the willpower to resist alcohol and parties u can handle not doing those things. u dont need to drink and party. u choose to drink and party. if drugs is more important then pops, then im afraid u can kiss your relationship with dad away. u will regret it. i used to smoke weed too and i stopped. in fact i havent done any type of drugs. havent done weed in 9 years. rarely drink very rare im talking once every four years, and i never partied im not the partying type. choose your dad and axe all the drugs

Keep smoking. Just don't let him find out.

Your father is not going to live forever. Try to focus on something completely positive - sports, bodybuilding, social work. Try to make new friends so that you can change the way you enjoy/relax with friends.

If you have friends who's only way of enjoying is smoking and drinking then avoid enjoying with them but be friends with them. Avoid them under some pretext.

Your father is trying to make you quit. Support him. Weeds may be not bad for your health or anything else but its certainly bad for the relationship between you and your father.

Whats more important smoking weeds or spending the little time your father has, together?

Time is always scarce in life, don't misunderstand my words.

get him high one good time. give him a special cookie or something. i would never let anyone keep me from my herb, of course its legal where i live tho.

Unless you have a medical condition to continue smoking weed, you should stop. If your relationship with your father is more important than your addiction then that's the only choice you have.

don't lie and say you don't do it anymore that's just wrong -_- just explain to him what it helps with (if it helps with anything?) and make it a little "dramatic" eg. "This helps with my anxiety", but this sounds better> "It helps with my anxiety, because I get it 'really' bad some times!" or.... you could just quit :/

just don't lie

Don't smoke it around him. Use eye drops and a citrus spray

weed can safe ur life

quit smoking weed

Get help

i would quit smoking weed if you want to talk to your dad

Do a coin toss.

Heads you stop what you're doing & go talk to your dad.
Tails you stop what you're doing & go smoke some!

Honestly? When you're older & more mature, you'll put everything aside, and spend time with your dad BEFORE HE'S GONE, and go back to what you used to enjoy doing!

43 years ago, I got married. Home, families, work, school, got my life too busy for my parents. Then, I got laid off, it took me 1 1/2yrs. to find another job, doing excellent there! Then our company merged, and started to go downhill. I decided to put that on hold, take a deep breath, and let go, and spend some time with my dad, he was close to 98yrs. I had 1 whole week with him, before he died. I end up taking care of my mother, before she died. Now? I missed them so much. I also became a grandmother. Money is no longer important to me, but spending more time with my GDD, family & my new passion, and started my own company.

He doesn't need to know carry perfume and eye drops with you if you see him after smoking. Nothing wrong with weed in my eyes. 👀

Change the screen saver on his computer to pages from The Emperor Wears No Clothes by Jack Herer.
Or other factual info on hemp, not marijuana only.