Two of my best friends have gotten into a relationship,which is great for them,however it has been a year for the one,and 2 for the other. during thir relationship I have always put in the efoort to go and see them and not once since they got into relationship take the time to make plans with me.
I have gotten to the point where leaving the friendship is a better option because it has become one sided and i am sick of running after them all the time and them just expecting that i will always be there
I had a girlfriend at one point who got very upset with me because i would visit my friends once i spent the day with her, to the point she basically tried to guilt me for spending time with my friends.
it has also made me wounder if relationships come at such a price. I get that your partner should take priority,but should never become your entire life?
I am just considering leaving that friendship,since its come to this?
Does getting into a relationship always come at a price?
2017-06-13 7:23 pm
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2017-06-13 7:33 pm
This kind of thing depends on where you live.
In a big city, most people don't have a lot of friends. You might have some other friends that you want to see. But your partner might not have any other close friends besides you. And that's why you partner might be upset with you for leaving her alone.
But in small places, where everybody knows everybody else, most people usually have several close friends. And they don't mind if you go to spend some time with your friends. Because they also have other friends, with whom they can spend time.
In a big city, most people don't have a lot of friends. You might have some other friends that you want to see. But your partner might not have any other close friends besides you. And that's why you partner might be upset with you for leaving her alone.
But in small places, where everybody knows everybody else, most people usually have several close friends. And they don't mind if you go to spend some time with your friends. Because they also have other friends, with whom they can spend time.
2017-06-13 7:26 pm
Unfortunately it sounds as though your friends are faced with the same thing you were. It is common that this happens with both sexes by the way. The new boyfriend/girlfriend becomes the new "best friend".
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