Am I small minded?

Don't pay attention to your idiot friends. If you don't want to deal with anyone in your circle acting like a pussy, then don't. I know if I were in your shoes, I would be reacting the same way you are.

Really? He is acting like a whiny ***** because some chick dumped him after only 4 days? If this is how he is reacting to being dumped, then his chick made the right choice in breaking it off with him. Your friend in question is acting more of a wuss than a 5 year old.

You don't have the problem. Your friend does. He needs to grow a set. Every guy has been rejected and dumped by chicks before. What makes him think he is special? He needs to realize that it won't be the last time a chick won't have him for some reason. He may go through 100 relationships before finding someone who may want to keep him.

The next time he wants to whine to you that some chick dumped him after only 4 days of together, then tell him to man the **** up! If he wants someone to be his emotional tampon, then he needs to go cry on his mama's shoulder.

just because someone has an opinion of you doesnt mean its true or that you have to accept it.

To be honest I totally get your side and maybe I'm being small minded too, but I don't like to feed into bs. So what if we don't like to deal with dramatic people. If thats what it is.. is being small minded. I'm all for it. Maybe thats a flaw, but I'm okay with that. God didn't make us perfect. God also didn't make me an actor either so you would know how I'd feel about the subject by the look on my face. If they want to listen to him.. go for it. Doesn't mean that I have to.

That's not being small minded. Don't listen to whoever told you that...

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be subject to drama and negativity