Parents dont let me drive with friends?

2017-05-09 7:43 am
Im 15 and a sophmore in hs. I have a lot of junior friends and some of my friends have older siblings that drive. I drove w them a few times to lunch and stuff and after my parents said i cant anymore. Because of this, i miss out on soooo much stuff and constantly have to reject invites. The thing is on top of that my parents never want to drive me to get wawa or to other places. I miss out on sm fun stuff since i need a ride from my parents. They say they cant trust them bc theyre teens but theyre expirienced at least a year and we dont go farther than 10 mins away. I dont think theyll be changing their opinion but might as well ask for some advice. Also, literally all my friends are allowed to drive w their friends, which makes it 10x worse, i feel very singled out.

回答 (5)

2017-05-09 7:46 am
Smart parents. Some states won't allow that for teenage drivers, either.
2017-05-09 8:09 am
They are probably trying to save you from getting into a car accident, hurt or killed. I doubt your parents will be changing, either. Maybe your parents are smarter than your friends' parents. Ever think of that?
2017-05-09 7:54 am
Listen, I know it sucks but my parents do the same thing. They will barely even let me drive in other parents' cars. But they're cool in other ways...
2017-05-09 7:50 am
Hello I'm 25 and can I just say nothing at 15 is so significant that you are missing out on life...give me a break. I can't tell you how many fatalities are caused by teenagers and young adults even my age. Just because your friends have parents that are not concerned about their teenagers driving with a car full on other teens doesn't make it worse... you should be lucky your parents care this much about you.

When I was your age my friend was driving his car with a car full of teens also his age. One of them was being reckless and stuck his head out of the window which became decapitated since he stuck his head out so far it hit a parked car. Guess who got in trouble? The driver.

Lack of driving experience makes more dangerous for you to drive.

Also growing up and being an adult that makes their own decision is WAY more fun than anything you'll be doing as a teenager. Trust me.

I'm so happy I'm over 18. That's when you really start living.
2017-05-09 7:48 am
Your parents I'm sure are just concerned about your safety, and maybe they won't admit it, but they don't want to let you grow up, and seeing you going out with friends, learning to drive, it's probably hitting a soft spot. I would wait for a few days and let the issue simmer down, and then maybe ask if they will let you have some leeway, maybe once a week or on Saturdays when you don't have school.
Playing the "I feel singled out card" will not work on parents!!
If this doesn't work then you will just have to respect their decisions and maybe revisit the issue in future years.

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