Is it okay not to label my sexuality?

I like women both physically and emotionally but every now and then I see a good looking dude like I have a weakness for Asian men and light skinned blacks haha And sometimes when I see that a guy is into me even though I'm not intrested I sometimes lead them on but don't have any intentions with them I wouldn't have sex with them just the thought of it grosses me out! I really hate it when they touch me it makes me really uncomfortable but I've been really curious what it would be like to give a guy a handjob for some reason is that weird? Is it alright to ask a friend if I can try this little experiment out? Having all these thoughts I'd feel like a frond if I said I was gay so I don't label my sexuality I don't think I like labels.