About my biological father?
2017-05-01 10:57 am
So, my biological father cheated on my mom and left me when I was two and before my little brother was born. He wasn t a part of my life for 11 years. At first, when I was young, I wanted him back. But now I have a great stepdad and have been getting along without him for a long time. Then, a year ago, he magically reappeared (By the way, I forgot to mention, I live in California, and he lives in Florida, so it was through calls that he appeared). My little brother is thrilled, but even though it has been a year, I don t want to talk to him. I guess I m kinda scared that he will leave again, and I don t want to get attached to him. But at the same time, I feel bad for him, because I feel like he is genuinely trying to get back to me. What should I do?
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2017-05-05 2:51 pm
i would see him so you can find out whats going on, its possible he might not have known where you were and that might be why you didnt hear from him
2017-05-01 9:01 pm
Tell your father what you said here--that he wasn't a part of your life due to his own choice, and that you have a great stepdad who is a constant part of your life. You don't have to feel sorry for this person, because he is the one who made the choice to cheat on your mother, and leave her with a toddler and expecting another baby. People don't just "magically" appear after being gone for years. I suspect that he may be re-entering your life because he needs someone to take care of him in his old age, and he thinks because you're his biological child, you owe him that. Well, that's a mistake on his part. You managed without him for years, and I would think it was a struggle for you mother until your stepdad came along. You're not obligated to become attached to a person who was callous and left your family because of his selfishness. You can be cordial to him as you would a casual acquaintance, but I would think your allegiance belongs with your stepdad who loves you.
2017-05-01 12:23 pm
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2017-05-01 11:49 am
i would ask him what happened with your Mom. She may not be so innocent in all this no matter what you have heard.
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