i want to dress like gal, but am married.. some times i wore my wife clothes when she is not om. but i how can i share i am turth to her?

Say, "honey I should've told you sooner, but I'm into cross dressing. I hope you don't mind that I sometimes wear your clothes."

You really should ask permission before you raid someone else's closet.

I don't get why you think you need to tell her. What would change if she knew?

But if you feel like you need to tell her, just tell her the truth, "Honey, I'm a transvestite."

In a suicide letter!

tell her during sex