It's it wrong to be mad my boyfriend seems to have treated his ex better than me?
2017-02-27 2:52 pm
My bf and I been dating for a year I love him so much and I believe he loves me and I'm so thankful and happy to have him but I feel like he treated his ex gf way better then me for example he told me he would write her love letter expressing his emotions to her and he has NEVER wrote me a love letter when he has told he has never love someone more then me.. he told me what he did for her bday and Valentine's Day.. when he didn't do anything special for me not even a flower or a happy bday kiss .. he told me how he would show her off to his friends when I only met one.. I remember seeing how he would show her off on social media when he only has 1 picture of me .. was sucks the most is that she cheated on him and she treated him like **** when I HAVE GIVING HIM EVRYTHING AND SHOWED HIM respect and love .. I feel like he show her off and gave her evrything when she didn't deserve it and I feel like I do and I don't :( they dated 1 year and we been together a year 2 montha
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2017-02-27 3:18 pm
One of the biggest mistakes some couples (a partner) makes IS TO FOCUS ON THE COMPETITION. She and all the events and activity are in the past,
THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE.
I have dated and had relationships with girls that Dated BETTER LOOKING Guys and Guys with MORE TO OFFER the girl, than I did.
The Girls ENJOYED ME, because I always kept them smiling and feeling special.
My GOAL in each Relationship or Date, was to have them say to me: "I have never met a guy like you. You're different from other guys, I've dated."
When that make that STATEMENT, I KNOW, I STAND OUT from the others.
I have NOTHING to be insecure about.
Have you swept him off his feet? If you FOCUS on the memories YOU and HIM can have... he might just forget there were other girls in his past.
He IS THE PRIZE, He is who you have to win over.
Whatever the reason was He and The EX broke up, her time is over.
It's your turn MAKE HIM BRAG ABOUT YOU.
If you want ideas... email me.
THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE.
I have dated and had relationships with girls that Dated BETTER LOOKING Guys and Guys with MORE TO OFFER the girl, than I did.
The Girls ENJOYED ME, because I always kept them smiling and feeling special.
My GOAL in each Relationship or Date, was to have them say to me: "I have never met a guy like you. You're different from other guys, I've dated."
When that make that STATEMENT, I KNOW, I STAND OUT from the others.
I have NOTHING to be insecure about.
Have you swept him off his feet? If you FOCUS on the memories YOU and HIM can have... he might just forget there were other girls in his past.
He IS THE PRIZE, He is who you have to win over.
Whatever the reason was He and The EX broke up, her time is over.
It's your turn MAKE HIM BRAG ABOUT YOU.
If you want ideas... email me.
2017-02-27 3:04 pm
Stop comparing yourself with his ex. your bf has been cheated, may be that's why he has changed his behavior towards his partner. Just don't expect to get love and surprises. the golden rule of any relationship- 'DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING'. Another rule you should follow is 'Give love and don't expect anything in return'. Give him the love at fullest and see your relationship becoming stronger and stronger with the time. Don't be obsessed and forgive more. If in future your relationship does't last long, just move on.
參考: Happily married for 5 years
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