He already proposed last year but without a ring.. I told him, was that it? he said, yes, because he thought I didn't need the ring.. I don't understand why I had to tell him that he needed to buy me. Now, I regret telling him.. I told him nevermind but he still forces me to look at rings online and he will buy me. I'm afraid I forced him. I always tell him what to do. Before, he would joke around looking at the ring whenever we passed by the jewelry stores in the mall and I would only laugh and not say anything.
I didn't really repeat buying me a ring. I just told him once and it was yesterday that I was upset that he didn't thought about buying me a ring. I cried and told him I was so upset. And now he wants to buy me a ring but he wants me to choose it for myself then he will pay for it or we will look together online on Friday because it's our day off.
Is it bad that I mentioned him to buy me an enggagement ring?
2017-02-21 11:37 pm
回答 (11)
2017-02-22 5:12 am
What's the problem? You want a ring. You're getting a ring.
2017-02-21 11:38 pm
Are you sure you're marrying someone with a brain?
What ELSE does he not know? This is your FUTURE!
What ELSE does he not know? This is your FUTURE!
2017-03-10 1:13 pm
He should leave you.
He didn't NEED a friggin ring to propose to you with! You sound really controlling and high maintenance.
Now that he TOLD you to look at rings you like your b*tching about that, he wants you to pick out a ring that you like so when he buys it and gives it to you you won't be mad and b*tchy.
He didn't NEED a friggin ring to propose to you with! You sound really controlling and high maintenance.
Now that he TOLD you to look at rings you like your b*tching about that, he wants you to pick out a ring that you like so when he buys it and gives it to you you won't be mad and b*tchy.
參考: I'm so lucky to have a boyfriend who has the same views about not getting married
2017-02-24 11:27 pm
You told him what was on your mind. The longer that I am married the more I have learned to tell my husband what I want, say for my birthday or whatever. Men can't read our minds. I have taught him to do the same. What do You want for your birthday? I tell him it's better to have what he wants than to receive something he didn't want. You need a ring so others will know also that You are engaged. It's a tradition. If You love him, go get that ring.
2017-02-23 12:23 am
Queen Bee said it best. If you like it then you should have put a ring on it.
2017-02-22 1:55 am
In my opinion, it's not about the ring itself, it's about the thought. And it sounds like he didn't put any thought into your engagement. I would rather have a twisty tie from a loaf of bread if it meant something rather than a pretty ring that I guilted my boyfriend into buying for me.
If I had to tell my boyfriend to get me a ring, that would be a red flag for me. When my grandparents got engaged, they were dirt poor and my grandpa could not afford a nice ring. So he still gave her a cheap plastic kids ring with a note that described why it was still perfect for her and how he would get her the ring she deserves once he could afford it. EVERYONE knows it is customary to get an engagement ring- that doesn't mean it is required, but the fact that he only joked about it and never asked you about it makes me question your relationship.
I don't know your situation, but whatever you decide, just make sure you are being fair. If you want him to treat you like a princess, make sure you treat him like a prince. That's the biggest lesson I learned from my grandparents who were married for over 60 years- don't take more than you are willing to give. If either of you is taking more than giving, it won't work out in the long run. And divorces can be very messy and very expensive!
If I had to tell my boyfriend to get me a ring, that would be a red flag for me. When my grandparents got engaged, they were dirt poor and my grandpa could not afford a nice ring. So he still gave her a cheap plastic kids ring with a note that described why it was still perfect for her and how he would get her the ring she deserves once he could afford it. EVERYONE knows it is customary to get an engagement ring- that doesn't mean it is required, but the fact that he only joked about it and never asked you about it makes me question your relationship.
I don't know your situation, but whatever you decide, just make sure you are being fair. If you want him to treat you like a princess, make sure you treat him like a prince. That's the biggest lesson I learned from my grandparents who were married for over 60 years- don't take more than you are willing to give. If either of you is taking more than giving, it won't work out in the long run. And divorces can be very messy and very expensive!
2017-02-22 12:05 am
Ncn
2017-02-21 11:38 pm
Not at all. Just say that you are returning the ring he never gave you and that he should move out.
2017-02-21 11:38 pm
Are you buying him a ring too?
2017-02-21 11:37 pm
coup ow
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