Do you think I made a mistake ending the relationship?
2017-02-18 5:13 pm
I dated this guy from when I was 17 to 18 and we lasted for a year in a half and somewhere along the way I started getting bored and wanted to meet new people. But a part of me still wanted him around because he knew everything about me and we always had a lot of fun together and went to a lot of fun places and he actually moved in with me and my mom and obviously I lost my v to him and that like made our relationship grew stronger but after awhile I just felt like we had nothing to talk about anymore and I actually started questioning if he still wanted to be with me until finally I decided to just break up with him because I didn't want to miss out on other things you know, I mean we were 18. After awhile i started to miss him and actually wanted to talk to him about getting back together but then I found out he was dating my closest friend and she knew everything about us so I was pretty upset but kept it inside because I knew I had no right to be upset. Right? Since I dumped him?anyway they ended up breaking after a few months and I was just too upset and confused about what I wanted and didn't talk to him for awhile and suddenly I got so caught up in people and ended up ignoring all his messages now we've both grown into different people and I barely know who he is anymore and often I think about if I made a mistake or not.
回答 (6)
2017-02-18 5:20 pm
It's not a mistake. If you stayed, you would always be wondering what a life with another man be like. You would always want to explore and meet other men. It's better that you have realised it, because if you didn't you would had just stayed. Then suddenly u meet a new guy and the feelings get intense and that leads to cheating (just saying how it can happen, not blaming you for anything)
Then you would realise (like most people) that the affair was just a wild fire.It didn't last but it burned everything u had.
I think you are on the right path. Focus on other things. Try meeting new guys. Explore what kind of life you can have with another man. It's exciting. Good luck
Then you would realise (like most people) that the affair was just a wild fire.It didn't last but it burned everything u had.
I think you are on the right path. Focus on other things. Try meeting new guys. Explore what kind of life you can have with another man. It's exciting. Good luck
2017-03-07 6:07 am
You want to have your cake and eat it. Make up your mind...stop messing him about.
Ma and Grandma
Ma and Grandma
2017-03-07 5:22 am
If you ask the question "Did I make a mistake?" Then you probably did!
Put it to rest...get over it!
Put it to rest...get over it!
2017-02-21 8:55 am
No. You should always listen to your instincts and honor your feelings. And at your age you should play the field and to have many experiences. It keeps life feeling fresh and new; while being stagnant dams the flow in life. The "I Wonder" and the "What Ifs" or "If only I had........" are not what we want to ask ourselves at the end of journeys. Make it an unforgettable journey, not a regrettable destination.
2017-03-25 8:45 am
as humans, our nature is to want what we don't have. Appreciate what you do, but always make sure what you have is beneficial and not superficial. best of luck, kid!
2017-03-12 11:22 am
No. You did the right thing. Do not question yourself. You are a teenager and have so much to learn and this is part of you learning. Kids your age typically do not remain together. As evident with your current situation. Move on.
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