I am no troll. I love a lady I never hold or see.I am trying to walk away with out creating a hatred ' any suggestions for me?

The best way to get over someone usually is to get to know them better you probably will not hate them but you may find something about her that you dont like

First of all, what you feel for her is NOT love. So stop calling it love.

Secondly, go talk to a therapist about your apparent obsession over this woman who is essentially a stranger to you.