Any tips on stopping a bad habit during sex?

2017-02-12 12:44 pm
Im currently dating a girl who gets freaked out that i growl like an animal during sex i don't do it on purpose its just an involuntary reaction i have when ever im excited or angry she says it completely freaks her out an makes it feel like an animal is going to attack her i dont like upsetting her an she will literally stop our session she keeps complaining that its wierd an that i dont even act human its kinda wierd this is a girl who loves rough sex but this one little thing i do scares her i do my best not to growl but i need some tips i really like this girl an i don't feel right making her deal with this

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2017-02-12 9:03 pm
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Tell her that u honestly can't help it. If she likes it rough then tell her growling is kinky or something. Or just say u won't have sex with her if u can't do something u wanna do, she's not the boss of u. Maybe u could shove a cloth in ur mouth to stop lol. Or u could really just focus on not growling or turn the growls into moans
2017-02-12 1:18 pm
It is best for you and your girlfriend to refrain from having sex again till after marriage. Sex is a sacred gift from God which must be preserved for marriage. Using "protection" doesn't always prevent pregnancies or sexually transmitted diseases.

Here’s some information about sex before marriage from the books True Love Lasts, Straight Talk About Teen Dating, and Straight Talk About Dating:

Having sex before marriage can be harmful to you and to your future. This harm could include:

- not feeling good about yourself

- finding out that having sex causes people to become emotionally attached way too quickly

- sex becoming the main focus of your relationship

- finding out that having sex makes people ignore serious problems in the person they’re dating - serious problems that could destroy a marriage

- failing to realize that dating relationships which have sex as their main focus usually don’t last - until the relationship falls apart

- not learning to have real communication with each other, to be in touch with the your positive and negative feelings and the feelings of your significant other, to resolve conflicts in a calm constructive manner, to really get to know what your significant other is like in all situations because you’re spending too much time having sex

- not feeling good about choosing to have sex after your boyfriend or girlfriend says “I love you” and then later finding out he or she was lying to you just to get sex or he or she just has the feeling of being “in love” instead of true love (true love is supposed to be a lifelong commitment)

- feeling that you need to keep having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend or else they’ll break up with you - even though you don’t feel good about it

- finding out that having sex makes people stay in dating relationships much longer than they should

- making the bad choice to stay in a relationship that you know isn’t good for you because you’re having sex

- being broken hearted after your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you

- becoming an angry person after having your heart broken

- becoming depressed or possibly even suicidal after having your heart broken (please see a professional counselor immediately if you feel depressed or suicidal)

- feeling that you can’t trust anyone anymore after you’ve had your heart broken

- feeling horrible that you broke your boyfriend or girlfriend’s heart when you broke up with them

- getting into the habit of jumping from one sexual relationship to another looking for true love and sadly never finding it

- getting a sexually transmitted disease

- getting pregnant

- becoming a single mother (guys often don’t marry their pregnant girlfriends)

- having a child who doesn’t have a stable male role model in their life

- becoming more hesitant about making a lifelong marriage commitment to another person after having your heart broken

- ending up having problems relating sexually to your husband or wife in marriage because of the sex you had with them (and possibly with others) before marriage

- becoming divorced (statistics show that couples who have sex before marriage are more likely to get divorced than couples who don’t have sex before marriage)

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Also, pray to Lord Jesus and invite him into your life. He will give you the strength, wisdom, and guidance you need in order to overcome any challenge or addiction in life. He will also bring the right people into your life as long as you have faith
2017-02-28 11:24 pm
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