Transgender name help?

2017-01-31 11:06 am
Some background: I thought I was a cis female, but I've always felt uncomfortable being referred to as a lady, girl or woman and didn't really know why until I bought a men's flannel and felt like I was who I was supposed to be for the first time... Long story short, I'm starting to seriously think I might be FtM transgender or nonbinary. Don't think I'm a girl; if anything, I'm probably gender-neutral or both or something. Idk.

Anyways, what do you think about the name Kasper? I really like it, but I'm having second thoughts (maybe Casper with a C?) I want my name to be masculine and uncommon because I'm used to having a feminine name that I share with five other people in my class. If you don't like it, what do you suggest?

回答 (7)

2017-01-31 12:15 pm
✔ 最佳答案
I am agender so I can relate to not fitting into the associated traits of being female, but if I were you, I wouldn't jump to thinking you are transgender and trying to change your name just after feeling like yourself in a mens flannel. Nearly every female I know wears mens flannels, it isn't a big deal at all. The fabric is always of better quality and they are normally much warmer and longer which is usually desirable. Anyway lol, gender doesn't really correlate with wearing clothes. A guy can wear all girl clothes and still see themselves as a boy, and a girl can wear all guy clothes and still identify as a female. What clothes you like shouldn't make you change your gender. My sex is female, I wear all guy clothes, but am agender which means I think trying to fit into either "male" or "female" boxes is dumb. Just be yourself! You can see yourself as 100% female and just like wearing guy clothes (I have several friends like this).

If you hate your name, you can go by something else, it doesn't really matter, do what makes you happy. But don't feel like you need to change your identity because you like wearing guy flannels, because if that were the case, there would be no females left in the U.S. lol.

Peace and love!
2017-01-31 11:07 am
I'm a man. You're a gurl. You have no idea what it's like to be a dude, and you never will.
2017-01-31 11:33 am
How about FreakShow
2017-01-31 11:11 am
I can't truly answer cause I don't know you but I like Casper it's a nice name.
2017-01-31 10:51 pm
I used the name my parents would have called me if I'd not been trans.
2017-01-31 8:01 pm
i love that name. go for it. kasper would be more unusual but will probably be mis spelled all the time to casper so if you dont want it to be mis spelled go for casper. they are both masculine so choose whatever spelling you prefer.
2017-01-31 11:27 am
What like Casper the ghost?


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