I'm 金牛女 too , I think we will listen to my friends if something is easy or acceptable(we have our rule) .But if she keep doing something special or like''just for you so i 'll make it'' , then i think that is more than friend's level . Or you may ask her:)
(Also , if i feel fall in love with him , i will make some chocolate or small gift to make him happy .I will show him my love through my actions or telling him very shyly and I will care him much when he got hurt or something else :)) )Good Luck from HK:))