Can someone please give me advice?
2016-12-09 9:26 pm
I am 18 years old and still in high school. last week i found out i was 2 months pregnant. I was really excited to be. Even though im only 18 but i would have been able to take care of it. i have a steady job and everything. My boyfriend (who is baby daddy) knew i was pregnant and was very excited about it. But then he started having second thoughts and told me he didnt want it. so i told him he didnt have to take care of it cuase i could do it. So while everything was going on my ex tommy came back and i was so happy to see him and i missed him so much so yesterday we were hanging out and so we decided to take a nap and when i woke up there was blood everywhere and so tommy took me to the hospital. Now he is mad at me that i didnt tell him i was pregnant i was going to i just wanted to do it at the right time. So now tommy is mad at me and i dont know how to tell my boyfriend about tommy or the baby.
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2016-12-10 12:42 am
You had a miscarriage. You need to deal with that. It's very common in the first trimester.
Please face the fact that neither of these guys is mature enough to be a dad. Tommy is mad at you that you didn't tell him you're pregnant? What about being concerned for you that you were bleeding everywhere and having a miscarriage? Did you notice how it's all about him?
And if you're with Tommy, and your boyfriend isn't ready to step up and be a man when you're pregnant, then your boyfriend isn't right for you, either.
Learn from this. Your relationships aren't solid enough to bring a child into them. So get on good birth control and don't get pregnant again until you're in a relationship that will last 18 year,s or even just as long as a pregnancy.
Please face the fact that neither of these guys is mature enough to be a dad. Tommy is mad at you that you didn't tell him you're pregnant? What about being concerned for you that you were bleeding everywhere and having a miscarriage? Did you notice how it's all about him?
And if you're with Tommy, and your boyfriend isn't ready to step up and be a man when you're pregnant, then your boyfriend isn't right for you, either.
Learn from this. Your relationships aren't solid enough to bring a child into them. So get on good birth control and don't get pregnant again until you're in a relationship that will last 18 year,s or even just as long as a pregnancy.
2016-12-09 10:20 pm
The main responsibility is upon you and your baby daddy .You should resolve this problem .Your ex has the right to be mad at you for hiding a fact .
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