My dad is a feminist?

2016-11-26 9:28 pm
recently i got into an altercation with a woman outside of starbucks. it escalated to a point where she started slapping and punching me. i hit her back in my own defense and because of this my father beat me up, people pulled him off of me. He told me i cant hit women no matter what. i told him i was defending myself and he didnt care about that. he grounded me for three months. Why cant i defend myself from a woman even if she is assaulting me and why wont my dad let me defend myself from a woman?
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we were talking about football teams and she was a skins fan and i told her i hated the skins and she lost it.

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2016-11-26 9:30 pm
I'm not sure your Dad is a feminist but he was clearly not happy with the way he raised you. You must have had a real nasty mouth to make a woman start slapping you - what did you say to her? You likely provoked her in a really nasty way and she reacted - and your father reacted to your provocation and your reaction - both likely extremely rude and unnecessary. Tell us the whole story.
2016-11-30 8:26 pm
No, it only proves that he took measure of who was likely to get hurt and stopped things from getting worse.

The "can't hit a woman no matter what" is, of course, blind sexism. If one was a feminist according to the "equality" standard, one should completely disagree with this, though it is amazing how many feminists would agree.
2016-11-26 9:40 pm
That's not feminism, that's misandry. Saying you can't hit a woman purely because she is a woman is sexist.

Now, saying you can't hit a woman because women are people that don't like to be hit, is common sense.
2016-11-26 9:34 pm
Women are Devine angels and men are filthy swines, how could you? Don't ever place a woman in her place!!!
2016-11-26 9:30 pm
Explain how your dad is a feminist. I don't think you quite understand what a feminist is.
2016-11-27 1:39 am
Your Dad assaulting you has nothing to do with feminism. The woman assaulting you has nothing to do with feminism either. These are anger issues that stem from an inability to communicate. Anyone who would suggest that men or women assaulting each other is caused by feminism, does not understand feminism. Violence against men is not encouraged by feminist theory. Anyone who suggests it is, does not know feminist theory. I hope you can avoid these violent people in the future
2016-11-27 12:50 am
No. He is a traditionalists. Not a feminist.
Besides men cannot be feminist. They can only support feminism. Not a woman, not a feminist. Of course this does not make women automatically feminist, only if they say they are is how you can tell. Everyone belives in eqaulity for all people including me. It does not make them or me for that matter feminist by default. It makes us all caring individuals.

As for traditionalists, traditionalists are blind to the double standards women have over men in all society where men are held to more severe punishments than their female counterparts which are usually dismissed because of vagina.

I used to be one till i woke up one day seeing things through a common sensical lense of fact over biased sexist double standards against men thanks to 3rd wave feminist making legislation's in society that are fairly obvious in comparason. I think it was the mansplaining that woke me up to the truth.

As for traditionalists, they believe...
參考: ... the way i used to which is: If a woman or girl hits you, you cannot hit her back nomatter what. As the shaming that comes along with it is completely contraceptive and hypocritical is your less a man and your a woman. What really suprises me is traditionalists create homosexuals through abuse which is the last thing they want which makes them cry. They sadly bring it on themselves. Pretty much anything you do over a womans expense, you get shamed and called a woman and get treated worse than women simultaneously. If he calls you a woman ever, get a comeback to say, then give me all the special treatment you would for them, i want it all including being able to hit them back. He will get confused.
2016-11-26 9:30 pm
Your dad was right.

NOBODY should be hitting strangers. Regardless of which gender they are. The fact YOU couldn't stop your interaction with someone is far more concerning than what she did to you. Grow up.


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