Im 21&ill be spending Thanksgiving with my bf of 8months family this yr whom are very intimidating... Should I bring anything?

Ask your boyfriend, but usually if someone is cooking they have all the important stuff covered. Food might not be the best idea.

If they drink wine there is nothing wrong with that.

If they eat candy, bring her a box of candy for herself. Or flowers in a vase (don't forget the vase; you don't want her running around looking for one). A poinsettia plant is nice this time of year, too.

if you're so scared of his family WHY are you still with him? You knwo if you marry him those people are going to be your in laws, right? Just ask HIM since you're such a little mouse.